Sunday, March 1, 2009

Work and Bike Tour!

I just got back from my bike tour today. So yes, what is a bike tour? Well it is a volunteer led project where we ride our bikes from village to village over 4-5 days and give information sessions. This bike tour was for HIV/AIDS. There were 8 PCVs and then we had 2 other Beninese volunteers and translators. It was a great time, we did 8 sessions and biked from the village of Sakete to Porto Novo. I worked with the groups of women mostly, but it was hard to get them to understand that they could have a say in condom use. Here in Benin and throughout many countries in Africa it is difficult for women to have power in their relationships. Meaning...more bluntly...if men want to have sex, they have to have sex, with or without a condom. It was awesome having these older women in village put on condoms who had never even touched one before. Yesterday at one of the sessions I did a condom demonstration in front of the whole group--in French!!! It was a group of about 85 men and 5 women and they were all 30 and up I would say. It was crazy for them having this white girl do a condom demonstration for them, then of course I had to do the female condom. Then one of the men trying to be a trouble maker, says well I'm too big for that. Ha, then I put the condom over my hand and down my forearm and said oh really?! Haha, it was hilarious watching his face and the others. Anyway it was a fun few days and I think the volunteers that planned it did a great job, plus now I have two sweet new t-shirts!

I have been doing some good sensibilisations at work, my nutrition one last week was fantastic. And for the first time in Benin, every child I weighed from the village was a healthy weight. I must have said good work to the mom's like 5 times in local language. I was shocked, this village is so small and there isn't much there, which goes to show you can make it work even if you don't have much. Last Monday we celebrated the 2nd wedding anniversary of my French professor and his wife. It was such a tiring day. During the day my post mate and I took the two children who won the spelling bee in Zinvie to Cotonou to celebrate. We went out to lunch, to the beach, the market, we checked out the boats and fishing areas, then we took them to this little amusement park by the airport. I was exhausted by the end of it, not to mention sunburned and dehydrated...we were supposed to go to the art museum, but the exhibit was closed already so I didn't plan on walking around in the sun all day. The kids had a good time and the one girl had never left Zinvie before, so she was just amazed with everything we did. We got back and then made banana bread, salad, and cut up fruit for dinner. We didn't finish eating and everything until almost 11PM and by the time I got in my bed, I couldn't keep my eyes open. It was worth it though and I think my professor and his family and friends had a great time. I am still working on plans for my HIV/AIDS mural project and other things I have mentioned before. I leave for Burkina Faso tomorrow for the week for a little vacation. It is the Pan-African Film Festival, in Ouaga the capital of Burkina. A bunch of other volunteers are going and it should be an awesome time. Now I will be able to say that I have been to another country besides Benin!

I hope all is well, talk to you soon!

4 comments:

Anne said...

You keep outdoing yourself with your reports! I admire your bravery in saying what needs to be said to your groups and love the news about good baby weighing days. All this and the 48th anniversary of the signing of the act that brought the Peace Corps into being. You are a poster girl for the good news of a good organization. What I am not happy with is you are getting sunburn and I am getting ready to shovel out my car in order to get to work...something is not right with that picture! Had a fun conversation with the Heatons last week and we enjoyed sharing about your good work and my excitement with what you are doing.

As always, you are the best. Keep up the good work. And keep on sharing - it makes my day! Love, Anne

Anonymous said...

Hello Gorgeous! My God, how wonderful to see so many smiles! It's contagious... The beat of one loving heart, touches so many! Countless thoughts to catch up on, be on lookout! Your journey is a humbling message we shall treasure, eternally; as if you've given us a set of new eyes. We think of you daily, in sunshine and shade, with lots of love! Be Safe and Happy Trails! Until next time.... LUV, UJAG

Anonymous said...

You are the best: what a wonderful repport!
According to your repport, One men tried to be a troublemaker, said that" he was too big for the condom" and then you put it over your hand...
Even in our centre we meet refugees who say condom is not big.They will tire it in having sex.
I encourage you bcause it's not easey to teache africans about sex in the village.
I woul like working with you in future in my country:RDCongo
Have a nice weekend and say Hi!to MEG for me your repport is wonderful.OLIVIER

Katherine E. said...

The story about the condom over your arm was hilarious! I just just see the sly look you gave him before you served him right...haha! Miss you dollface! Can't WAIT to party with you!!